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Danis story
I felt trapped with nowhere to turn. My hope was gone and had been replaced with despair, a feeling that I was having trouble running from. I had been depressed in the past and anxiety would always come and go, I did everything I could to keep myself from feeling that crushing weight of fear and sadness I had tried to elude, I told myself I was happy. I held everything in and pushed thoughts that worried me to the side. This time was different because I had run out of masks and energy to bury what was coming up to be seen. I was a mother of two now, life was overwhelming, what was coming up felt too heavy for me to hold and still show up for my children. I struggled to get out of bed and tearfully went through my day, I had run out of ideas on how to fix this life that seemed to hold me down.
Most people were unaware of my internal suffering. I hid behind masks of "I'm ok." I hid it from myself. I was trying to live the story of what I thought I wanted, I was doing my best to ignore the truth of my reality, blinding myself to just how unhappy I was. Unknowingly I had learned to feel seen, heard and loved by being externally validated. I betrayed myself to hold attachments and connections that I believed I needed to feel loved.
What Changed
My sadness was debilitating, I was not happy in my marriage but terrified to make any real change because I had a belief in "happy ever after." This was my program, but my family were suffering... something needed to change. I started to realise my life would always be unhappy if I was unwilling to face that the storys in my mind was creating my reality.
Even though I was scared, I started to listen to the voice that said…what about you? I asked the universe for help and this initiated a chain of events that led me to Cornelius Christoper and ONEO.
After my first session with Cornelius, my life took a remarkably different course. I started to listen to my heart, no matter what my head tried to convince me. Being honest with myself meant acknowledging and accepting that I was holding the emotions of guilt, grief, and deep sadness from a life lived based on what others expected or wanted of me. I realised I felt unseen and unheard because I couldn't see myself and didn't listen; I was not my own best friend and unconsciously felt unworthy of love. This awareness allowed the pain I was afraid to feel shift and leave, my energetic body awakened, my nervous system began to heal, and I was now clearing what was not mine to hold. I gained clarity and inner strength to action change.
For the first time in my life, I chose to be kind to myself and to live from the heart. I created change so that my children learn that kindness, friendship and love start within. I choose to align with truth and because of this, my life is constantly changing for the better...